when you start thinking what other people think about you.

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What impacts occur when you start thinking, what other people think about you? 

 -> If you have clear vision, 

then my friend you don't have to think about others, what they think about you. When you start thinking about them you start losing (the thing you loose it depends upon situation).

Lets take an example:-

  You were on a small boat and happy, going to flow of water, then another Big boat is coming there are people on it this boat is fully utilized, but these come near to you and say come on our boat it is big and start pressurizing you to come on their boat, so now you have only Two options.

First -> you have clear vision.

=> when you have are confident and having a clear vision about your way than just don't think about these people leave and go away from them.

Second-> you think about other people thought of you.

=> In this situation , you start thinking what other people think about you and you start to take care of their thought, so you Just listen and follow then even when you know the boat is already fully utilized by these people now you gone to their boat and big boat start sinking because of overload and you loose you own small boat.

 I am not saying that you don't have to listen others.

Actually, you have to use your  mind carefully and cleverly you to listen what other people saying may be they are right but not always.

If they saying something to you Just first think these words are you useful or not,

If these are useful, think and work on it  ,if it is not just leave it and forget it.

Whatever you do just do, don't think about people what they think about you.  

"people have always problem with you"

 I will explain you in scene,

First scene => 

A 5ft4" boy,  who used to do be a beggar he don't have any disability, he do begging because he is from slums and his family also used to do this , he is uneducated , now people start talking about him that,  god give him good body but he still used to begging that's so shameful  and always taunting him. 

Second scene =>  

A rich man who don't do any charity because of his family issues , now people talking about him that,  he is so selfish, he only earn for himself ,he doesn't care about poor people .

He become rich on its own ,he do Hardwork , he put his efforts he gives his time.  

So according to people he is rude but in reality truth is much different .

 Clear reason why you shouldn't care what other thinks about you.

 (1)  Its not their life, so it's non of their business.

(2) They don't know what's best for you.

(3) what's right for someone else may be completely wrong for you.

(4) It will keep away from your dreams.

(5) you always get stucked with your result.

(6) peoples thought change on regular basis.

(7) life is too short.

(8) It is impossible to say please everytime.

      

                              AT END 

The weights of others thought can becomeba burden for you. It can inhibit your from living your life, because entire being ( your personality, thought actions) controlled by and idealized standerds of what people want to see you.  When you become so obsessed with other people opinion of you. You forget your own.

Once you give up catering to other people's opinions and thought , you will find who truly are, and that freedom will be like taking a breath for First time.

                            Thank you